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Love Yourself

Completely

EMPOWERING YOU TO

Welcome to a space where you’re seen, heard, and celebrated just as you are. As a certified compassion coach, trauma-informed facilitator (Certificate in Traumatic Stress Studies), and ordained minister, I’ve made it my mission to help others find healing, connection, and self-compassion in a way that feels authentic and empowering.

I believe growth happens when we embrace every part of ourselves—the messy, the magical, and everything in between. Together, we’ll work to release self-doubt, cultivate courage, and rediscover your inner strength.

This is a place where transformation begins—not through perfection, but through radical self-acceptance and connection. Let’s embark on a journey to heal, grow, and step fully into the person you’re meant to be.

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23 Ways to Leave

The book that helps you walk away from the sh*t that's breaking you.

Get the first four chapters FREE.

No strings. Just truth.

I'm Mindy Deane-hairstylist turned life coach, widow, and truth-teller.

Six weeks after my husband died by suicide, I sat in a circle of women at a retreat.

Cracked wide open. And i knew- I couldn't keep living like this.

For years, I'd been:

performing for love.
saying yes when I meant no.
fixing people who kept breaking me.
making myself small just to keep the peace.

This book?

It's for her.

The woman I used to be.

The one who stayed too long in places that were slowly killing her.

The one who mistook chaos for love.

The one who tried to hold it all together while quietly falling apart.

Grab the first 4 chapters-free

Inside, you'll get tools to:

Say no without guilt or apology.
Stop waiting for closure & set yourself free.
Break the habit of performing for love.
Shift from surviving to becoming.

This isn't a book about breakups.

It's a guide for the woman who knows she's meant for more than just surviving.

It's for the woman who's done giving her power away.

It's a rebellion, a reckoning, a reminder of your resilience.

This is for you if...

You've outgrown the stories that kept you small
You're stuck between grief and growth
You're ready to stop fixing everyone else and finally choose you

This is NOT for you if...

You're still waiting for them to change
You want a sugar-coated "just be positive" guide
You're not ready to get real about the pain and the power of healing

Who the hell am I to write this?

I'm the woman who's lived it.

I've walked away from the chaos.

I've burned my life down & rebuilt it from the ashes.

I don't believe healing happens when you just meditate and journal-

it happens when you tell the damn truth.... starting with yourself.

When you let yourself be seen.

That's what this book is.

A mirror, a middle finger, a map back to you.

From the pages...

"No is a full-ass sentence. No explanation required. No guilt necessary."

"You were meant for more than just living in survival mode. Boredom isn't the enemy- chaos is."

"The only ups and downs you need now are the gentle rise and fall of your breath."

Ready to begin?

Drop your email below.

I'll send the link to the first four chapters-no fluff, no BS, just the truth you needed to hear.

23 ways to leave

"Coaching with Mindy is my safe space, my place I can go for feedback, resolution and positivity.
It's a warm place with no judgment. She helps pinpoint the problem and
come up with real solutions to make it better."

Lyndsey W.